Susan lives in London with her two young daughters. She’s a yoga and cycling fanatic, and writes on behalf of sofasandsectionals.com. This article was provided at no cost.
Self improvement can be a tricky business and understanding it can be even worse. From my point of view, it can involve relaxing in a reclining sofa and having a well deserved drink but it can mean many different things to many different people. In this article I’m going to look at some well known quotes about self improvement to try and address how different people view the term.
“Employ your time in improving yourself by other men’s writings so that you shall come easily by what others have labored hard for.” – Socrates
What Socrates is really saying is read well and often and you’ll find things easier than others. I am a strong believer of reading; it can act as an escape from day to day life as well as a way of understanding a myriad of emotions, situations in addition to non-fictional information. Self improvement in this form could mean reading more into your work life, for example if you’re a builder perhaps reading Building Construction Handbook by Roy Chudley and Roger Greeno. Equally you can read more into making your home life the way you want it with books such as The Contemporary Garden by Phaidon Editors. Alternatively you may want to dig deeper and learn about why you are the way you are and how to change with books like Why Am I Adraid To Tell You Who I Am? by John Powell.
“People seldom improve when they have no other model but themselves to copy.” – Oliver Goldsmith
It’s difficult to improve yourself in any way without a role model, it’s simply too easy to get stuck in a rut of bad habits. The best way to counteract this is to truly get out there. Immerse yourself with people that inspire you and people that make you feel like a better person. Think about the things you admire in your friends and your family and mimic those traits. Practise makes perfect!
“The greatest of faults, I should say, is to be conscious of none.” – Thomas Carlyle
Admit your faults to yourself and admit your faults to your friends. Embrace them. Everyone has imperfections and it’s foolish to believe otherwise. The sooner you recognise and understand your flaws the sooner you can do something to improve them and work around them. For example, I am a fairly stubborn person. The personal improvement that I have made is learning to stop, take myself out of a situation and think “am I in the wrong?” Once you’ve done that it is a lot easier to admit fault without any embarrassment or shame.
“Never neglect an opportunity for improvement.” – Sir William Jones
The most important thing about understanding self improvement is be open to the idea of it on every level. The only way to learn is to want to learn so be prepared to read books on space travel, have dinner dates with interesting people and think hard about what makes you who you are.